I never knew this, but Judge Maybelline from Divorce Court was a BW too. She announced it to a BW who was looking to get a D b/c of her WH. She took them into chambers, tried to save their M (which they agreed to counseling) & admitted that when it happened to her, she chose to stay w/her WH & work through it. She did not go to counseling & now wishes she had. She said it would have gotten her through a lot faster had she sought counseling.

Don't know about the rest of you, but that was refreshing for me to hear & thought I'd share. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


RBW (me) FWH lostboyz
Married for 16 years
DDay on 10/10/03
Reconciliation on 2/8/04
Son 17, Twin son & daughter 16
4 years of a strong recovery