We has a pretty good weekend. A shower for his sister on Saturday, then we went to the neighbors house and hung out. On Sunday we took a ride on his Harley together and then took my son to the movies. Last night he started to act distant like he was annoyed when I tried to be affectionate with him. Is this withdrawl? Then when he was on the computer sending text messasges to her, as I suspected, I picked up his phone and just as I did he received a text message from her that said "goodbye, love ya". He denied it of course. I did not confront him with the fact that I knew he was text messaging her. I asked him if there was any area that I hadn't already improved on, as far as meeting his needs, that I needed to improve on and he said no. I ended the night tickling him in bed. I want the last thing he remembered to be happy.

He will find out this morning that I exposed his boss to he affair, his boss called him in for a meeting first thing this morning.

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duncad

You have to confront him on those text messages. Don't let him carry on this affair in front of you. If can read the words "goodbye, love ya" and he denies it and you let it pass then he is just saying you must be seeing things.

Of course he denied it. If those words are not enough for you, then what will be. Don't let him have the best of both worlds.