FamilyComesFirst,
I can't help but notice all of the anger you still have from your father's OW and OC's, and with your own actions that affected your H. As a Former Other Woman yourself, I'm sure you can understand that people do change for the better and do move on with their lives.
I would appreciate it if you would stop the personal attacks on me because I was exactly what you were once in your life, an OW.

Yes, I understand that E's husband is the biological father, but he has no legal rights at this point in time. Yes, I understand that BW's and their FWH's want to protect their private information by not sharing it with the other parties. Did you ever stop to think that E's H is the OM to the OW's H? So you think a WW and a BH should comply to an OM's W's request for medical information? In this situation there isn't only one marriage that is undergoing rebuilding and there isn't only one marriage dealing with an OP, both marriages are. Yes, E is the one here for help, but maybe someone should point out that her M isn't the only one being rebuilt in her situation. The other party has followed the MB plan and went NC with the OM (E's H) to rebuild their M. Eibrab happens to be on the opposite end that most BW's end up (wanting C when the OP refuses C). I think we can agree that in most cases, the M couple want NC which is what the OW and her H have chosen.


FamilyComesFirst, you can act holier than thou as much as you want but you were once an OW just like me and your father has an OC, just like me. People change and get out of EMA's and move on so please quit harping on me for things I have done in the past because girl I know all about your past. You've got no room to treat me like crap because you're an xOW too. If you were a BW I'd say fire away, but you're not. We are both no longer involved in EMA's so can we call it a truce please?

Mrs. Pot - meet Mrs. Black?

CLO - You have to be one of the angriest people of all time. You come onto a web site designed to support women who are betrayed by the man who promised to love them forever, and flaunt your theft of his heart to grind their faces in it. That is one h*ll of an act of rage, deary!

Get over yourself! Your opinion is just a trigger for pain; the pain your rage causes these dear women makes me cringe. You shame yourself! Oh - I forgot. Women who hang out and chase married men and promise to do it again have no shame - even though you say now that you are "happily" married - I remember another promise you made here... So either get real and get humble and leave this site and head over to emotional needs where you might just learn something to enhance your "marriage" - or leave marriage builders altogether! A true marriage builder coming with your history wouldn't be on THIS particular part of the site.

You've already played the hand that you are here to mock. I wish you healing and recovery. But I'll know it when you've really got it!

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Get over yourself, you lost, you weren't woman enough to steal your MM away. Not even getting yourself pregnant managed to do the trick.

Sucks to be you, doesn't it?