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My h wants to see the email I sent his mother. Do I send it to him?
M 26
H 28
married 7 years
D day 3 Sept 05
PLan 21 Sept 05
DD 6 yrs old
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The email exposes the affair
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I don't know your situation, or what side of it you are on..
but radical honesty is just that. Hide nothing from your spouse. Secrets build walls... and walls are freaking HARD to break down.
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Send it to him AFTER you know that his mother has read it. Don't give it to him before hand, or he'll try to do 'damage control' and spin everything in it so that he's not at fault.
Once you know that she's read it, then share it with him, by all means. There shouldn't be anything in there he doesn't already know anyway.
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