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FamilyComesFirst- Can you turn on your PM's?
#1506568 10/25/05 10:58 AM
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The thread was locked so I can not reply to your comment. Would you turn on your PM's?

You wrote "Get over yourself, you lost, you weren't woman enough to steal your MM away. Not even getting yourself pregnant managed to do the trick.Sucks to be you, doesn't it?"

Does that make a real woman- breaking up a marriage? I don't think so and it's sad that you do.
I asked you for a truce from one FORMER Other Woman to the next and you couldn't do it. Who needs to get over themself? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
Re: FamilyComesFirst- Can you turn on your PM's?
CheerfulLittleOne #1506569 10/25/05 10:59 AM
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PM's are NOT allowed on the MB forums. For Obvious reasons.

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me~BS & WS~38~~h~BS & WS~37 my d-days~7/92, 1/96, 7/00, 9/07
h's d-days~7/11/00 & 2 weeks later 3 COM, 1 OC(mine)
Re: FamilyComesFirst- Can you turn on your PM's?
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I am asking you BOTH (all) to call a truce, as one MB member to another.

It's ok to tactfully disagree with advice, suggestions, concepts,,to politely offer your own viewpoints, but PLEASE do not make personal attacks against one another......
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JustUss #1506571 10/25/05 11:33 AM
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That thread was locked because it was pointless. We will never see eye to eye so I will just ignore you. I guess I can only hope that when you are picking on BW's the mods will take care of it. We'll see.
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Your moderators are here to insure the forums run without major problems and to assist you in any way possible. But we can't read each and every post.

PLEASE email us or "alert" (moderator alert)us to any thread or post that needs our attention for ANY reason.

Help us to make this a SAFE helpful place for everyone....

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Re: FamilyComesFirst- Can you turn on your PM's?
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CLO - I think the issue is how you responded on your first post to Eibrab. You were totally mean spirited. You changed your tune later. You need to work on being more understanding to what many of the BS are going through. If your looking for an argument, you just may find one. I'm willing to be understanding to you, that doesn't mean I won't let you know how I feel, but I appreciate your point of view.

April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.

My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)

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