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Trying to think ahead here. Halloween is coming up and need to get geared up for how to handle the Trick or Treating.
What I'd like to do is not have WH take DS at all. But that's not good for DS and I know that wouldn't fly with WH. Usually one of us takes DS out and the other man's the door to hand out candy then we swap off.
I guess I will tell WH that he can come and take DS around from 7:00 to 7:30 and I will take him from 7:30 to 8:00. Will have to handle so I don't see WH at all. I guess I'll have to shove DS out the door.......
What is everybody else planning??
Kim
D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault
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why don't you just have him take DS for the entire time so WH doesn't have to come inside? That will give him a taste of what divorced life will look like.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I could do that....I always enjoy walking around with DS though. Wasn't planning on letting WH come in. After his turn I was going to lock up the house & take DS around. I could e-mail my plan to Sara so WH would know before-hand -
DS is going to be Mr. Incredible. The costume is SO CUTE!
Kim
D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault
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I let my son trick or treat with xh..1 hr. then xh bring him home to me for 1 hr. I get son for all of halloween night <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> He gets 1 hr. This year, his oc who is almost 2, will be going with them. It has to be wierd.
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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