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I've noticed so many Plan B'ers searching for excuses to have contact with WS's. I thought Plan B was about separating oneself from the drama and focusing on personal improvement. I want to yell at the computer screen "No contact means no contact!" Contact negates Plan B whether the contact is direct or indirect.
If BS's expect NC when the WS comes out of the fog, they sure well better model that behavior. What's the WS going to say after the NC letter is written, "Well when you said you weren't going to contact me but you about so and so"
Contact just defeats the purpose. Unless there's a death in the family, I can't think of a reason to contact.
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