I'm about to lose it. My wife secretly buys stuff behind my back all the time. Not large item purchases but enough to send our account into overdraft. I had to use $500 of student loan money to cover costs two weeks ago. As soon as our account was in the positive again, she started spending behind my back. She even bought a vehicle without my consent during an argument last January.

I'd be divorced in a NY minute if I could afford it. I'm so tired of this relationship but I have no family where I live and no money to rent an apartment. If I leave, I know my credit is ruined.

Ugh! Sorry, I just had to rant.