For all of you who dont know I have been having a little problem with one of my ex boyfriends that i dated like 8yrs ago. My birthday was on Monday and the only thing i wanted was for my H to call me, he did and made my day. Well last night I went to the bar. Its my sisters and I went to watch my mom at her pool match last night. Well everyone found out that it was my birthday and they started buying me drinks and shots. I knew everyone at the bar bc im related to half of them. Well after the match they had karoke and a bunch of us girls got up and we were singing just having a really good time. I turn around and that damn ex-bf of mine is here. I couldnt drive home bc i was to intoxicated to drive. My mom couldnt drive me home either she had a little to much. I kept my distance talking to my cousin who was there and my mother in law my mom and my brother. He eventually did come over and talk to me and told me happy birthday i said thanks. I ended up fall asleep on my moms shoulder and i guess he took a pic of me w/ his camera phone. Well my aunt calls me this morning and says that you sure did have a good time last night. I really did the most fun i've had in a while. She goes you just better make sure you dont let him send that pic to your H. I said what pic? Then she told me. Well i called him bc i was furious that he would even want to start crap. I go out every Tuesday night once a week away from my children just to have a little fun. I've never had any problems. I told him if you dare send that just to start trouble i'll be so angry with you. I shouldnt evn really be saying that might give him reason to do that. Im not worried bc I know nothing happened besides me singing and dancing with my friends. Just makes me really upset bc he wants to start trouble. I have nothing to hide from my H i will tell him myself. My H doesnt mind me going out with the girls one night he has complete trust in me and he should, i'd never do something like that. He knows i got out on Tuesday and I have someone to watch our two children. Like i said everyone told me that all i did was sing and dance with my friends i just hate when people want to start trouble for no reason at all. maybe its all my fault. I dont know. I'll take the blame for it. I dont know how he found out where i was i only told my dad and he doesnt know my house number just my cell and my phone never rang last night.