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Joined: Oct 2005
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My WH moved out in June. He moved in with the OW. He has since continued a sexual and emotional R with me, and has made promises of coming home to our family. He's been home a few days here and there, but ends up missing the OW so much that he returns to her. He now tells me he's not "in love with me".
Now, I'd like to initiate a Plan B. I am prepared to deal with the consequences I may suffer because of it; but, I cannot continue to see my H while he is living with the OW.
Please help me with what I need to write in a plan B letter. Any examples of what you have written would be fabulous!
Thanks,
sunkissed
P.S. I absolutely love this man and hope he will return to me and our infant daughter. I know we can work through it!
Me - BS
WH - lost in his own misery, confused
us - DD - six months (planned pregnancy, not an accident)
Living with OW since 6/05, back and forth three times since then - continues sexual and emotional R with me (dragging me along I suppose)
A since 6/03
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Joined: Aug 2005
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Dear Sun,
I am so sorry you find yourself in this situation.
You are in a good place to get support and help.
I think you will get more responses if you post in GQII.
I will check on you later.
with love,
VTY
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I just reposted these (from a few years ago)... Plan A - 101 (2nd ed.)(make sure you do a Plan A before Plan B... Plan B - 101 (2nd ed.)NSR <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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