Maybe this strike which has kept WH out of work for 3 weeks has been a blessing. The first 2 weeks of this strike WH spent all day everyday working on his Wiley's jeep fixing it up. I was upset because we had a lot of things to finsih up on this house. He kept saying he would do the things that needed to get done ect. Then after the 2 weeks. I did nto complain or LB however I did mention that he always says things and never follows thru. Had amde alot of promises plans ect that never materialized. Then he got up one morning when I had to work and started doing things around the house. I came home from work and he was painting the inside doors which had never been done. He moved a tool shed that he had put in my laundry room into the gargage, huge thi g with me for so long -4 yrs. Has finally painted the french doors -4 of them -they were starting to rust. Has put the screens up that he left undone since last year. I am amazed at all the things he has done. I asked finally WH why are you doing all of this now? He knows how pleased I am. He held me and said I am back 110%. I said really back? He said yes. He wants to make me happy. I have thanked him and am so glad. We always took so much pride in our home. I was getting exhausted by trying to do all these things myself. Plus work. It really is making me so happy.

Now the second part. Looks like Thursday he may be going back to work. We have really become so close again over this time togethr. I am afraid that contact could start again when he goes back to work and has his work cell phone again.

So I am writing and drafting my plan B letter and should have a rough draft by Monday which I will post for all to help me with.

Any ideas as to how I can ask him about further contact with OW before he goes back to work? How do I bring it up without sounding the wrong way. I don't want to sart any trouble especially now.