Well I am back again. Had another date in court with WH he brought his trash with him. And was told not to. He was told to keep her away got into a little trouble with that one. But we got vistation ironed out sort of. I would really like to knock the fruit loops out of his att. She made the stupid comment about thats what his child support is for and I fired back at her that that would be fine if hr was paying it. I really dislike her very much. She seems to think that for 2 months I took all his money and he had no access to it. I got her dead to wrong on that his name was on the account and he made with drawels out of that account during that time. So she can stuff it. I am gathering evidence to blow her boat out of the water.

I guess I am really angry right now but my att didn't say anything to me about my comments. They make me sick to see them prance into the court house like they are doing everything right they are so innocent but I got news for them I am firig up to take a portion of his retirement and other things he doesn't know I can go after. I really hate to be this way but when backed into a corner you have to fight your way out.

Some people just don't have the smarts they were born with.

Hi joanna,

I can appreciate how hard it must be not only to go through the D but having the homewrecking trash in your presence at the D hearing.How incredibly rude and declasse.

The D process is such an abominable experience isn't it? My WH also retained a bulldog of a Lawyer which in some cases might be considered a good thing but for Mediation,not.Everything fell apart and it was a war of the worlds type of scenario.

Anyway,I too said I will go down fighting if I have to and I was but thankfully,we are back on track now and stopped seeing our Lawyers.Small miracle.

Take good care of yourself as you go through this.It's very taxing on our bodies and immune system.

STAY STRONG~ GOOD LUCK!

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The thing is alot of this could have been settled with out Att if he had just been willing to sit down with me and work all this stuff out but hey he wants it this way to make me look like a [email]B@#!$[/email] and I am not. I just want whats right. I worked very hard to get him through Paramedic school and gave up a lot for things he wanted and now I will fight to get my fair share. Am I wrong.
During all tis I told him that in the future if he realized his mistake the door may still be open for him but we would have to see where I am at. Deep down I know he is a good man but he has got a real case of stupid right now that has no cure until he gets rid of the home wrecker. He had a good life with me but hey if he wants to struggle then so be it.

All WS have a big case of the stupids. You will always be in the wrong. Perhaps you can take comfort in the fact that the homewrecker will probably go on to wreck yet another home.

(((((((((j32)))))))))))))

I am hoping soon he will get a drift or home wrecker will have had enough and leave. I am just sick of the mess he has put us in and would love to be able to pack up and leave for good. He is being just such a toad about everything.