My fiance has a very close relationship with her brother a little to close for me. The reason I say to close, her brother makes her feel guilty if she does not spend time with him on a regular basis. Now what they call spending time together is going out, keep in mind she has to drive to him about 20miles away and she does not come home until between 1am-3am. When I spoke to her about this she said that I am always complaing about something and that I am trying to control her life. I told her that I am not about to compete with your brother, when we get married we become one and everyone else comes second. She feels that I am trying to come between her and her brother what can I do? I am all for spending time with your family but I feel a woman should take care of home first. I also feel that her brother knows that we are in the process of getting married and he should not make her feel guilty if she does not spend time with him like he wants. He calls her all the time on the phone all day long. Now there relationship has been like this before I came on the scene, so again I say what do I do? I am open to all ideas because now what I do, when she wants to go I don't say anything anymore because it was pushing her away from me because she felt like I was being controling, so now I pray and believe that God will show her what she should and should not be doing. Again I say what should I do?

Me Vs Her Brother single choice
	She is right
	I am right
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After having viewed your other post, I don't think there's much that anybody here could say...