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My friend,
An ear is always here.
Peace,
CN.
What we think or what we know or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only consequence is what we do. ~ John Ruskin
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Thanks for the offer, CN
I have moved into a studio flat. W will not speak to me and is moving forward with legal sep. I'm starting to accept that this horse has been dead for a long time and I've just kept beating it.
Youngest daughter will not return my calls. I hope someday her anger will subside. OTH, my oldest daughter has been very supportive and has been checking on me often.
The one twist in all this is what my SIL told me (W's brother's wife). She told me "You weren't the only one who cheated. Ask your W about that trip to the Keys."
I don't even care at this point. I really don't. I'm actually looking forward to moving on with my life.
I have requested a work transfer. I'll either be sent to Redmond or Capetown after the first of the year.
I suppose I should post to the D&D board, if I post.
Thanks to all who have offered help. It was appreciated.
Low
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Low,
You probably don't remember me. I just wanted to let you know that I've read your posts a lot and admired your courage and willingness to work on your marriage--and your penitent attitude.
Good luck, and I'm sorry the outcome wasn't different.
XWW
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Low... just wanted to chime in and say I'm sorry. You have provided some valuable advice to me over the past year, both here and elsewhere. It realy stinks that you did the right thing and came clean about the contact and this happens anyway.
Take care of yourself, Low.
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I hope you can get the opportunity to "taste the candy"...not having to look through the door of the candy store... You know what I mean... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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