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Hanzo,
Been seeing your posts and wondered what brought you here to MB?
Thanks,
L.
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Actually stumbled across the site a few weeks ago while web searching for marriage/relationship enhancement advice(i.e. fun things to do, how to keep the spice up, etc..) I'm a sucker for forums, started to lurk and read the topics here. I mean no disrespect to anyone here, but their stories read better than most novels! I sorta got frustrated reading dazednconfusedks thread and became a non-lurker!
A little background: Married for 15 years, both of us STILL crazy in love with each other, but always looking for new and exciting ways to tweak things up. 2 kids, 2 dogs, 2 trucks.
Thanks for asking, and keep up the good work you do on here for other posters!
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Hanzo,
Thanks for the update. It helps to know when responding.
BTW, u r not the only one who came for the similar type of reasons. Some of our best posters have non-A affected M's but have been great contributors. The ability to empathize is very helpful. Helping us stay balanced is critical.
Reading His Needs/Her Needs is great even if w/a good M. Please understand though, that the posts you see here are for the most part full of pain and most of us are surprised we are acting or allowing what we do. Can't really explain it now but many of us hung on when we knew we s/b kicking 'em to the curb. For some that has meant saving our Ms. For all of us (most at the very least) it has given us back our sanity. It's a crazy road we have traveled but better for the wear.
Look forward to your posts.
Mahalo,
L.
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Hanzo,
It is refreshing to know that someone finds this forum a fun thing to do. Those of us who discovered it when dealing with infidelity certainly don't think the need to be here constitutes fun in any capacity. I really hope that what you have read here will benefit you in more ways than good read.
There are powerful lessons that I wished I had learned early in my marriage. For all of the sometimes lighthearted banter that does show up from time to time, many folks here are experiencing the worst life experience that anyone could ever have.
Hopefully, neither you or your spouse, nor anyone you care about will ever need to come here as a WS or BS.
Sincerely,
Who
I am the BW,
He is the FWH
D-Day: 12/02/03
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