O.K.
I haven't written here much lately other than the pass-by reply to others posts. A lot has been going on and I just felt it was better because I wasn't sure who might read here.
I previously updated about my marriage and my job.
What I didn't bring up was that my husband and I were fighting for custody of my children. Dork decided to try and block the children from moving and living with me and tried to change our parenting plan to one in which he had the children Mon-Fri. He wanted them to be with me and Steve every other weekend and was 'generously' offering liberal holiday and summer visitations.
Well, I was floored...and scared.
I couldn't imagine a court giving him the children after he walked out on them like he did. He had never been the caregiver for them! He took a job that took him away for weeks at a time, he volunteered for training that took him away from them and he knowingly transferred into a high deployment unit in the reserves instead of thinking about how much he would be away from them! How could he possibly think to take them away from the only security and consistency that they have known?
He tried though. Thank God it's over.
I can't tell you how much energy this has taken. It's been physically, emotionally and spiritually draining. It put me into a major spiritual crisis. It's been a financial drain. It's consumed untold hours of time.
Steve has been wonderful and stood beside me. He's been the one to hold me up many days.
Now it is done though.
So, I hope to be a little more active around here now. I spend enough time here!!
Oh, yeah....almost forgot.....
Steve and I are expecting a little FIM <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
