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Who would have thought four months ago, when my husband told me he didn't love me anymore that life could be good again once more. Every moment spent with my xwh, is sweet beyond belief, every moment treasured and locked tightly in my heart. The ugly thoughts of the affair still occasionally flick across my mind a couple times a day, but they are getting shorter, and not as often. I only cry a dozen times a week instead of the marathon crying sessions I had when I first found out. The good times are now exceeding the sad times. The rollercoaster is slowing down, and I am definately enjoying the ride. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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KDH -
That is awesome!! I am happy for you and that you are recovering your M. Thanks for sharing with us!!!
Kim
D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault
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Thank you Kim for your kind words.
I have been reading up on your situation, and I am so glad you are able to stay strong. Let's hope your w/h finally wakes up and smells the stench of his affair with the o/w and decides to clean himself up and be a husband again.
K.D.'s Heartbreak
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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It is so good to hear that things are going well with you!
Me-41 BS (FWS) DH-41 WS (FBS) 2DD's- 10 and 12 Married 15 years Separated for 2 years after my A Reconciled for 1 year before his A D-day for his A 8/23/05 WH moved out 9/16/05 Divorce final 1/23/07 Affair ended or month or so later My Story
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Thanks Jean,
After going through ****** and back, I appreciate each day that is good.
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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KD,
I am so happy for you. You deserve a happy life and I see it happening for you.
I hope someday to join you on the road to recovery. I keep praying it will happen...
God Bless you and you H.
Hurting
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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Ditto for you Hurting, prayers being said for your martial recovery.
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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Good for you, KD. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
I wish you every success in your continuing recovery.
Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Dear KD, I couldn't be happier for you!! I know you've waded through H3ll in Hipboots to get here.
Stay Strong!
[color:"#39395A"]***Well, it's sort of hard to still wonder if you were consolation prize in the midst of being cherished.***
- Noodle[/color]
Devastation Day: Aug 26, 2004
[color:"#2964d8"]"I think we have come out on the other side... meaning that we love each other more than we ever did when we loved each other most." [/color]
[color:"#7b9af7"]
~Archibald MacLeish[/color]
Very Happily Married
Me FBS - 44
Him FWS - 51
I married him all over again, May 07
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KD--So good to see you so happy, Sister. When you first started posting here @ MB, I was very sad and frightened for you. Thanks for giving everybody a little ray of hope.
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Glad to see your happy, your story gives me hope and confidence I can make too.
Thank you
"Never argue with idiots or WSs, They just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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KDS, I'm so happy to hear things are finally starting to turn around for you, since you certainly deserve it.
You are on your way to a wonderful recovery.
Stories like yours gives all of us BS hope.
Thanks and continued success...
Married 10 years, Legally Seperated Aug 2,2006 1 year of Plan A followed by 1 year of Plan B... ...now stepping towards recovery????? BH 37(me), WW 35, DB 7 & DD 5 My Story My struggle with an EA
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Glad to hear things are looking up. You deserve it.
Your efforts are paying off!
XBW
DS16 & DS22
PLAN D: finalized!
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KD--So good to see you so happy, Sister. When you first started posting here @ MB, I was very sad and frightened for you. Thanks for giving everybody a little ray of hope. MeOnlyBetter, Where have you been??? I was just thinking about you and wondering what is happening in your life now. Sisters always, in life's experiences. K.D.'s Heartbreak
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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KD-- I feel as if my H and I have begun to make some headway in regaining our M. We are having more heart-to-heart talks, and I feel like he finally understands how I have been feeling for the past 2 years. I know we have a long way to go. I haven't been posting as much lately because I want to concentrate my efforts on restoring our M. However I do check in from time to time to see how you are doing. Feel free to write me at my e-mail address that I have included in my bio at the end.
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Dear Alphin, lunamare, HTW, Eagle 15 and 10sword,
I am so greatful for everyone's happiness over my progress. I know how I, too, hang on to every single positive word that the b/s's say about their recovering marriages.
I love the stories that give my marriage hope, and I am so glad I was able to shine a little ray of hope to all of you.
May god hear our prayers for our marriages.
((((all the b/s's and w/s's)))
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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MeOnlyBetter, I am so happy to hear from you. That is great that you and your husband are finally starting to talk and "listen" and reach an understanding. See, we are sister's in another life. We are both progressing together. Woo hoo! When you get the time, drop me a line. I always look forward to hearing from you. As always, sisters in life's experiences. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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