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girl, i kind of had you down as a bit fragile but i have just been wandering over to another board and WOW! you kick [censored]! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> just wanted to let you know that. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> keep up the good work, lol! carolyn
BW -33 (Me)
WH-38
M- 4 years/together 10
OC (girl) born 03/03
D-Day 08/02
True friends stab you in the front - Oscar Wilde
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Hello Carolyn. I'm not fragile, but I do not try to come off as bitter and nasty as everyone says. I really don't mean to be that way, but I'm no nonsense, and sometimes, people will take kindness as a weakness. I really only try to express my opinion, but you know how it goes...
But thanks, this whole thing is so hard, and I'm strugglin like everybody else.
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April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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You know I completly understand that crazyhurt. In fact on another board I go to someone asked me if I were you. I'm guessing you use this screen name on another board. But from what I just read here I take it as a compliment. I'm nonnonsense also and very opinionated to boot. It doesnt always go over so well w/ some but I have to ultimatley think about the crowd I'm dealing with too. Keep your head up girl and keep pressing forward.
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i dont think you are nasty or bitter at all. i think you shoot from the hip and give your honest thoughts and there is abolutely nothing wrong with that. THere is also absolutely nothing wrong with the thoughts you have been expressing.
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Carolyn
BW -33 (Me)
WH-38
M- 4 years/together 10
OC (girl) born 03/03
D-Day 08/02
True friends stab you in the front - Oscar Wilde
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Thanks to both you ladies, they are giving me ****** on the other boards, but, I don't intimidate easily. It amazes me how some OW's can think that they are more important than you and the marriage. It boggles my mind, and then when you tell them that their concept sounds crazy to you, they get offended. Unbelievable.
Carolyn73 - Thank you for the support concerning Mikeswife..I don't know why she's so upset with me, I really don't care, I've never done anything but give her support. Whatever....
April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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no prob. mikeswife thinks you are calismile. She thinks you are the same person.
she (MW) is carrying over a very stupid discussion that took place on another board to the otherchild board. basically she got her boards confused.
BW -33 (Me)
WH-38
M- 4 years/together 10
OC (girl) born 03/03
D-Day 08/02
True friends stab you in the front - Oscar Wilde
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Well Calismile must have pissed her off good. What did she say? I'd love to know. LOL
Calismile you must be somethin else. LMAO
Please go over to the Otherchild board and let her know that we are different people. We really must sound alike. She's ready to eat me for dinner...LOL. I think I'm going to like you...mmmm.
What's the name of the other board?
April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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See that's the funny part I've never posted to otherchild I've only posted her and otherchildren. In anycase I feel the bottom line is really simple we are all entitled to our own opinions and have to deal with these situations the best we can. We wont always agree. If we did honestly we wouldn't have to be dealing with this to begin with.
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Crazy hurt if you email me I'll tell you what happened. I don't want to start any more caos or a board war or anything. my email is **edited**. It's funny because I wanted to see where the whole mikeswife thing was here and was looking all over for it but I just realized it must be on the other board. Gosh there are just too many boards. I guess I'll look for the post later on. Lol
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Crazy hurt if you email me I'll tell you what happened. I don't want to start any more caos or a board war or anything. my email is **edit**. It's funny because I wanted to see where the whole mikeswife thing was here and was looking all over for it but I just realized it must be on the other board. Gosh there are just too many boards. I guess I'll look for the post later on. Lol PM me on **edit**.
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April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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