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I posted my update in the GQII board if anyone wants a more detailed version...
But suffice it to say that I got nothing, although I didn't end up paying any of her debt. So not good, not bad, I guess...
But I thought I should have been rewarded for supporting her through podiatry school, and moving across the counrty twice so that she could achieve her dream.
I am very down right now, even though I knew this was coming. And even though I know in my heart I am much better off without her. She was a great weight I carried for so very long. Man, am I a martyr.
Check out the other board if you want a better picture...
TM
BH (Me) 32,
WW 38
no kids
been together 14.5 yrs.
married 9
D-day 12/5/04
D final 11/23/05, she got it all...I just wanted out.
Done with her...selfishness is not a virtue
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TM,
my heart goes out to you today. I guess after everything spirals downward and you get to the formality of the property and debt division, it is reduced to nothing more than a negotiation. I know enough about attorney to know that they kind have the view that if neither party is totally happy, then it is a fair settlement. Kinda sucks. I am sure that I will probably have a similar result.
All that being said, I care less about it every day. Right now the way I see it is that when she gave her love to OM and took it away from me, she took the only truly important thing in my life. The rest can be replaced with hard work and time. We will survive my friend and flourish once again. It will just take time. Peace brother!
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