hi, i have planed a my ww about 2 months, and exposed the affair.

i did not do a good plan A since i have BL twice in between.

i would like to further my Plan for another one month.
After that i would like to make about 3 month visit trip in another city since if i plan B, it is impossible for my ww move out due to some reasons.


so my question is : if it is ok for me to take this long-term trip since i do not think plan A will wake my WW although plan A can change the view of WW towards me, since now she fell in love with this OP, i am total ignored by WW.

Because i will not tell my WW how long the visit is? i will just tell her the visit maybe one week or two weeks or longer if required there.
so i think in this way she will not stay with this op all the night long since she do not know when i will exactly come back home.

so now my question is : should i take this long term trip because i am hurting enough!