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i just figured out that she lied by like 4 wks. that is not a small diff when it comes to pregnancy. why would she? it is not like my h wasn't still sleeping with her at that time. it is still a very good chance that it is his, but why would she lie about 4 wks????she told him she was 8 wks, and every calculator i find when i plug in the "due date" suggest she would have only been 4 wks. What could the signifigance of this be? talk about obsession, i can't get off this.
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One reason could be that your H knows when he used protection and when he didn't. Maybe those dates are not meshing. I would suggest a serious DNA test.
April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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I know how you feel..I have done the same thing. the ow in my situation told me herself that she was 12 wks when my H said she was only 8 then she is induced a whole 3 wks early because of stress from what I hear. I can hardly wait for the DNA to be done. But I am still looking at this as if it is his. I hate that we are all in the situation.
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hi,
just an idea, i know that when i got p w my ds i found out i was 5 weeks along yet had only had sex for 3 weeks. it could be somthing like that she might of felt that your h woulnd believe her. so she thought she had to. i know in my case i didnt lie cause thats not me but it sure seemed weird to be 5 weeks along and only doing for 3, but it goes back to the first day of last period.
By the way i knew i could get p that time of month he said thats okay thats what condems are for, well the condem broke, lol, kinda funny its the only one that has ever broke. my son was diffently meant to be here. he is very sinsetive and caring. anyway just thought id throw that in.
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