i just have a question for any FWS's out there. my WH is still out there 2 months after the fact denying his A, to me and everyone (it has pretty much been exposed, but i haven't caught them together)

i guess i just want to know from someone who has been him, we had a great m until financial strain, he got depressed and then the A. he doesn't seem to want our M over, but doesn't seem to want to work on it either. my biggest ? is why does he deny so much? why not come clean? He will regret this right?

BW: 37
WH: 38
DS: 8
M: 8-26-95
D-Day: 8-24-05
Seperated: 8/24/05 WH was living next door at his mom's hanging out at our house all the time until... AUGUST 28th, 2007....I moved out...2008 we started reconciling...still seperated but moving forward...getting ready to move back together...until boom JUNE 2010....a new affair begins...NOW...

I have filed for Divorce.

Living by God's grace daily!!!!