Here we are suffering and saying how good we were and how much we did for our marriages, but then, how come we don't meet people like all the people that are in this forum?, if we are so good and so many why don't we meet in life?

What does this mean? I mean, how is it that all those male and female jerks get to have us? what is that they do that we don't do to get people like us?

Are we shy or are we just fools? do we have a stamp on our forehead that says: HERE IS A LONELY FOOLISH HEART

What seducted us from these men and women that we don't practice out there?

We might need to start learning something from them to move on, like pick up lines or suggestions on how to locate or distinguish a MB-SAAVY person in any place. Something that let's another person know HEY, I'M LOOKING FOR LOVE BUT I ALSO WANT A COMMITMENT AND BELIEVE IN MB CONCEPTS IN A SAFE WAY.

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Obviously, it wasn't our time yet...

Think of a breakup this way: you're one step closer to the one you're meant to be with."

I did meet and marry a good person. However, he is not the man I'm divorcing. I don't know if it is a mid-life crisis, depression, or self-loathing, but he has changed and is no longer that good person around me. I still worry about him and miss the man I married. However, he doesn't want my help or love, so it's time for me to move on with my life.