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Okay i am really confused Wh moves in with OW(right). Now explain to me why he is taking his stuff to storage instead to thier happy little love nest. This is really screwed up. When we started to co habitate he moved his stuff in no questions all of it not just his clothes. What does this mean
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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Could be that there's not enough room by the OW to house his stuff.
Or it could be that he doesn't trust the OW THAT much.
Or it could be that the OW doesn't want any of his stuff by her yet.
Or it could be something else entirely.
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R u trying to find logic in the WS' actions? Hm.... where's that 2X4? Better yet.....let's sic LM on u! LOL!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> The reason why he is moving his stuff into storage c/b he is having doubts. Mine did. Kept all his stuff that I forced him to take out of our home and he lived out of the storage facility. Yep, even he as a WS knew living with the OW was a stupid idea.....yet somehow having sex seemed ok.... such fog. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Don't waste your time wondering...... better to sit back and wait. The answer comes to those who wait. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Hugz, L.
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I find myself always wanting to analyze every little thing I know about my W's life with the OM and every decision she makes. I've also found how destructive that can be to my own sanity. I've become better at ignoring the negative things, but it's hard to not get my hopes up about the seemingly positive signs.
Instead, I am putting my trust in the plan that Steve at MB has laid out for me, and letting their relationship tear itself apart. It's hard. I want to do whatever I can to try and break them up. I want to look for signs of cracks in the shell of their lives together. But I really need to just sit back and hold on to the love that I still have for her.
Take care.
ncn
BS - 27 (me)
WW - 23 (living with OM since 9/16)
OM - 32 (OMW - 33)
no kids/pets in either marriage
d-day - 9/12/05
EA/PA - 6/05-present
Exposed to OMW 10/5/05, Exposed to ILs 10/18/05
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My WH put a lot of his stuff in storage as well... His clothes and personal stuff but its right down th eroad from OW'S were he lives.
He claims its because she does not have enough room for it... Which could be true since he moved from a 3 bedroom house with a shed and yard to a cramped 2 bedroom apt....
But he still has his gun cabinet and some stuff at his sisters home with no plans to move it yet. She did make him take his jewlry box today though.... She made sure after he claimed I was keeping his turqoise rings from him... Haha they found them in his box.....
So who knows why they do what they do best to not even worry about it.....
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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I try not to find logic in what they do. But it is really freaky the storage shed is almost 100 miles from where he is living and all his stuff is still in the house we shared. I wasn't moving it with my stuff so I left it. He has been living with her for 5 months now. Plenty of time to get it moved right. Now after all this time he asks if i know where the key is to the storage shed.
As far as I know the only thing he has over there are his personnal items he still takes all his clothes around with him in his car. But really right now I don't care I was just wondering about others Opinion of this development.
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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Joanna,
I sure wish we could figure it out.... Would really help us figure out what to do .....
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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I just wish I had a crystal ball and a smit rod that would help cure alot of our messes around here. But that is only a dream. Btw I read your post to blondie and you where right on the mark there.
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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Thanks Joanna.....
I was just a little upset over the remarks on my post ....
Yes a magic pill or magic wand would be wonderful would it not....
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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Sometimes I pray the joanah's prayer. I felt like blowing her boat up as well
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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Joanna, Howa doing? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> L.
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