Emailed this to her lastnight.

Mine:

Well I tried Wife to be there for you this weekend, but you really did not need me. But it was nice of your family for letting me go. I never had a grandfather and I kinda looked at yours as mine. So it was nice to show my respects to him.

As I told you lastnight, its so hard to know you have been replaced by a man you have known for a month and 1/2. I know you would of rather been with him at the funeral then me. These last few months have made me question everything you have ever said to me. I really dont think you ever loved me. And the ****** you have put me thru these last 5 months really seem to confirm that to me. I mean you ran to the hospital for him, but 5 months ago when I thought I was dead you were so mean to me.

Im not sure what I ever was to you wife. Why did you stay? Ill never understand any of this. Ill never undstand why I tried to be here for you ever these last few months. Ill never understand how you can take my daughter to his house already. That is MY! daughter, im a god damn good father to. She should not know his f-cking name, or his f-cking sons name already. How dare you take my daughter to his house and dont bring up Lori, you know its no where near the same thing.

I have no desire to be anything other then a friend of hers. She has been a good friend these last 5 months, yea she said what she said but I had enough self control that I did not do it. Im still married and why I think that way ill never know.

So many things I would love to say to you Sharon, yea im having a hard time with this, sorry someone gives a rats [censored] about you. I never thought that caring for someone could hurt so much. I have to dig deep inside my heart and rip what love I have for you out and toss it in the garbage just like you have tossed me.

****** you even said yesterday how gross my place is. Well thank you that makes me feel so good. why you seem to say things just to hurt me anymore ill never know. How you can say you cared about me and then just say things that just make me want to puke. I guess you think I dont have a heart or feelings at all.

Again ill say this, that is my daughter and god help anyone who thinks he will take my place in her life. I already dont see her for days on end, something I never thought would happen, you have taken her away from me as much as you can and you will never replace me in her heart!!

Sorry im not one of these guys that just dont give a f-ck about there kids, she is my life now. All I know is that I can look her in the eyes with honesty.



Hers:

Husband,
I have not replaced you with anyone....I told you i'm just friends with him and i am just taking things one day at a time. I can't make you stop thinking the way that you do.....but you have got to stop reading the worst into everything that goes on between us.
Daughter is our #1 priority and i would never ever make her think that anyone could replace you!!!

Husband....i'm soo glad you came to grandpa's funeral, i would have been upset if you didn't go.
You should know by now I handle my emotions my way......I don't lean on anyone but me....I have been like that my whole life!!!! I never ever gave it one moment of thought to have him come with me to the funeral......it was for family not someone i'm seeing at the moment.

It's not fair to bring up you and your being sick months ago when we were going through something totally different at the time. It has nothing to do with me going with a friend to the hospital,I would have done it for any one of my group of friends.

please.........you have to try to talk to me instead of ignoring me for days ok? I've had one ****** of a ride this past week or 2 with grandpa and life is too short to be angry at every thing that comes our way....don't you agree?

I needed to talk to you about son.....He had a pipe and a bag of weed in his pant pocket this morning when i went to hang up his pants.....i've told him not to do it at home or bring into the house....what do we do now? He has no money to pay for it....so how did he get it?

anyway call me ok? friends and parents forever............wife

So what do you think? By the way the guy is not the affair guy its a man she met a month or so ago. We have been seperated since June. Divorce should be done in Feb. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

SHE'S FOGGY!

She is "just a friend" talk...

don't buy it.

She signed off like a sixth graader does.."friends forever!"

She is having an affair. I wish I could say otherwise.

I say its time to think about Plan B.

I know she is sleeping with this man, I have know it for a month now. She really thinks she is single, but yea that six grade stuff is funny hu.

She does things like she is 16 years old, like put hearts around the dates on her calander for when she and him have sex LOL.

She has alot more going on then just infidelity, the divorce is in full swing anyway. It just weird how she is now and I thought that her emial showed that.

I must say that sex to her now seems like its nothing at all. It just something they do. I must tell you she was molested by her father at age 8 to 10.

So what do you think?

In all honesty...you are concentrating on the WRONG things right now.

[color:"red"] I needed to talk to you about son.....He had a pipe and a bag of weed in his pant pocket this morning when i went to hang up his pants.....i've told him not to do it at home or bring into the house....what do we do now? He has no money to pay for it....so how did he get it? [/color]

RED ALERT! You have a son that is smoking weed...and it appears by the paraphernalia that he could be smoking crack too...isn't that what a "pipe" is used for? ALL she is concerned with is that he not do it at home, or bring it in the house...can you say OMG?

You have a responsibility to your son...forget about trying to save her ...you need to save your son.

That is my opinion.

committed

Kids use pipes for weed, but who knows, they can use it for anything these days.....still where is your wife's brain??? Don't use it in the home or bring it the house? Kids medicating with drugs; sometimes it because of peer pressure, sometimes its because they want to escape from the emotions they are encountering in life. With what is going on in your life it might be the later. Someone needs to talk with the son and find out what's going on.


P.S. I just put my college age daughter in the hospital for a psychotic breakdown due to a mixture of pot and her ADD medication. She didn't realize mixing the two would be a problem. You can't mix uppers and downers...right now she is on an antipsychotic medication and after a week she is still recovering.

Thanks for the concern for my son, it turned out it was not his pipe, but his friends pipe and the friend took the full blame for it, not that my son has not had his problems. right now he is clean, thank god. What does suck it that he is one of the lazyest human beings i have ever seen.

Falcon....that is serious!!!

You need to call the nearest substance abuse treatment center/office and tell them what WW has found in sons pocket, and get your son to treatment/drug counseling.

Lady

Falcon,

I sure hope you aren't in denial of what is happening with your son. A pipe and weed in his pocket isn't an innocent thing. Carrying it for a friend is the OLDEST story in the book...and a friend taking the blame happens with the parents. It's not like there are repercussions for him if he takes the blame for your son.

Focus on what is important and I don't feel that is your STBXW.

He isn't clean if he's packing the stuff.

I will let it end here with my responses because I don't think that my comments will help you see the real problem.

committed

Actually, there should be repercussions for taking the blame for your son...you should be contacting HIS parents and making sure that they're aware of what's going on...odds are much higher that between the stories the kids tell them and the stories they tell you, you'll be able to figure out the truth much more clearly.