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I was just wondering that my FWH and I have agreed upon NC. This was before i found this website and before I know the things I know now. When he comes home or even now should I have him write a NC letter and send to OW or should I just let it be?
BS 24
FWH 24
M- 3years
Together 7 years
DS 4
DD 1
D-Day 6/27/05
NC- 6/28/05
Exposed A 7/1/05
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The NC letter is to let the OP know that the affair is over, and also provides safety for the BS.
If the affair ended for sure on D-day, I don't think the NC letter is necessary.
Affairs ending on D-day are not that common here.
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Thanks believer, I just wasnt sure. His ONS was on the 15th of june and i didnt find out until the 27th of june. So his last real contact with OW was the 27th of june. No emails not nothing. Army has been watching his mail coming into him also. I have the ATM card to recharge the minutes and he has no access to get any money anymore. He did this AFTER i found out about the A. We switched banks and I have all that info with me now. So the ATM card he has no is no good. So there really isnt a way that he could have contact with OW and she has no way of getting our home number or anything.
BS 24
FWH 24
M- 3years
Together 7 years
DS 4
DD 1
D-Day 6/27/05
NC- 6/28/05
Exposed A 7/1/05
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