(OP), I want you to know that out of respect and love for my wife and children, I have come to realize that I must never see or talk with you again. My relationship with you was a cruel indulgence that (BS) did not deserve. While I cannot completely repay (BS) for the pain I have caused her, I will do my best to become the husband she?s been missing. I care a great deal for my family and I would not want to do anything to risk their happiness. I will not make any further contact with you and I do not want you to make any contact with me. Please respect my desire to end our relationship.
Sincerely,
(WS)

To:
I have behaved in a selfish and inconsiderate way that has resulted in much pain to both of our families. I know that marital reconciliation with my husband is the right thing to do, but will never fully repay the heartache I have caused. I deeply care about him and want things to work out so we can have a family and realize all of our dreams together. To protect him, I have decided and been required to break off all contact with you. All things considered, I think it is best that our families break off all contact as well. This decision, this promise to not ever contact you in any way, direct or indirect, is for life. I am so sorry for what I have done to my and your family. I ask that you respect my promise and never seek to contact me. I will refuse any such attempts to contact me and notify Eric immediately.
I am trying to do the right thing and set my family and my life straight. I have been completely honest with my husband about everything. He knows everything. The selfish and inconsiderate damage that I have caused can never be fully repaired but breaking off all contact is the first step towards a rebuilding of trust. I hope that in time you can forgive me.
Sincerely,

To:

I am sending this letter to confirm for you that I have reconciled with my wife.

To protect her, I have decided to break off all non-professional contact with you. This decision - not to contact you or interact with you in any way other than as required to maintain a polite professional relationship - is permanent and not subject to change. I ask that you respect my decision, and never seek to contact me, or interact with me other than as required to maintain a polite professional relationship. I will refuse all efforts to initiate other than professional contact with me, and I will notify Msjpw immediately of any contact between us, as I have been doing after each and every communication you have made thus far, and I will continue to alert her to any effort made to initiate additional interaction. I have been completely honest with Msjpw about everything that has transpired. This is essential to rebuild a trusting relationship between Msjpw and I, and I have committed myself to doing so.

I hope that this letter makes clear my position.
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<OM>,
I want you to know that out of respect and love for <BS> and <D>, I have come to realize that I must never see or talk with you again. My relationship with you was a cruel indulgence that <BS> did not deserve. While I cannot completely repay <BS> for the pain I have caused him, I will do my best to become the wife he has been missing. I care a great deal for my family and I would not want to do anything to risk their happiness. I will not make any further contact with you and I do not want you to make any contact with me or my family. <BS> is going to know everything. I will tell him if you contact me. Please respect my desire to end our relationship.
Sincerely,
<WS>

9-11-00
Dear OW,
I am writing this letter for one reason only. All communication between you and me must come to an end immediately! If C and I are ever going to resolve our differences and re-establish the trust we once had, you and I cannot communicate with each other at all.
I realize now that I never should have considered trying to find Starlight products for you or even considered selling you my Miata.
It certainly isn't anything personal, but I'm sure that you can understand C's position on the issue and if you were in her shoes that you would feel exactly the same as she does.
I love her and she deserves a 100% effort from me to make our lives together as happy as possible.
I wish you well, and I will appreciate your cooperation in this matter.
Sincerely,
H