I think its wrong to assume that "most women" feel the same way about porn. I'm a 27 year old woman and sometimes i like to watch porn too. Like anything else if you do it too much, or if the sex you're having becomes all porn all the time then it is a problem. Obviously, you can take the advice of each person and consider it but consider it carefully. It's your relationship and in the end you need to think about how its really affecting it. If you really cant stand porn and are so against it then that is something you need to express. Communicate with your husband and if you cant then that is the bigger issue here.