I have been lurking here for 2 months and just read a thread that i could of written.(infadelity proven)
My wife told me last month that she loved me but didnt feel it(in love) with me anymore.She then asked to have me stay somewhere else for a while and give her space. I didnt agree and stayed for my children.
She all of a sudden started wanting to go out with her GIRLS ,not alot but 4x in a 2 week span. One for her birthday and the other 2 was a company function and one to just go.
I have another post with more detail so im cutting this one shorter for now.
She has also removed her wedding band and diamond and says she will put it back on when shes ready.
Me being the jealous type i started inquirey of her cell phone tranactions and all of a sudden there is a new co worker in her adress book and when i got my detail billing it showed 242 minutes to him. 86 phone calls
When i asked she said it was buisness and defended it.
Well 4 weeks later and i have done alot of work and still no concrete evadince. Tried semen kits after going out...negative.
Since last night out she has just about accounted for her every move willingly with no proding.But the phone calls continue to him after she leaves work...short ones but calls all the same.
The night she was out for birthday she called him at 8.12 pm and i asked her why...she replied that gruop was meeting her group of employees at a bar after her bday dinner.
I have the gut feeling that she is ws and i am doing more information gathering now, being nice, no LB and trying to fill EN and we are going to MC.
I Planted a digital recorder in her car this morning and hope that it reveals what these conversations are about. I hope they are buisness but i dont think so.
I have read alot on this site (80-90 hours) so im prepared but if i do get the evadence i will need a hand.
What do you guys think?

Onemore,

"What do you guys think?"

Same thing you do...that there is more going on than just "office" business.

The recorder in the car should tell you real quick whats up.

Good luck and take care of YOU!

k

Have you tried explaining to her that by her not wearing the rings it feels as if she is trying to find someone else? Also, is she opposed to MC?

I have told her that i have a deep emotional need for her to wear something so significant.
She isnt opposed ,she was hesitant but not opposed.