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Checking my email in the morning as i always do and what do i find in there??? An email from OW! She was writing to let me know that she is getting married didnt say when and frankly i dont care. Maybe she is saying this who knows. I wanted to reply to her bc if this is the bf she was with when my Hs ONS happened i just wanna tell him what his finace did. I wanted to write in there well being your married now make sure you stay out of all the other guys' pants. She also told me that she hopes that im still not having insecurites about my husband? Its only been 6 months, i still feel insecure every now and then, i just cant believe she is telling me that esp. coming from a girl who did this more than once....what a way to start the day off! maybe my FWH will give me a call and make it all better!
BS 24
FWH 24
M- 3years
Together 7 years
DS 4
DD 1
D-Day 6/27/05
NC- 6/28/05
Exposed A 7/1/05
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Ignore the hateful b*tch. She is not worth your notice. She is a sleazy you-know-what who is beneath you. Just delete the email and don't give her the satisfaction.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I agree delete the email and don't let this clueless person get under your skin one more time. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> Just keep focused on your life and family.
joie de vivre --- Love all, trust a few. Do harm to none. William Shakespear
Married 27 yrs.
3 Children, 23yoS, 20yoD, 18yoS
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Its deleted. Caught me off guard, i thought I had blocked her email addy but I guess i didnt. I have two wonderful children and a H who is coming home VERY soon! Im just looking into the future and recovering our M.
BS 24
FWH 24
M- 3years
Together 7 years
DS 4
DD 1
D-Day 6/27/05
NC- 6/28/05
Exposed A 7/1/05
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A type of passive-aggressive approach would be to save her e-mail address for future use. Some sites want you to provide an e-mail address before they will let you download something or use their services. So, I just enter the e-mail addresses of those that ticked me off and let them get the Spam mail. Not all e-mail is caught by Spam filters so that is just that much more crap they have to sift through. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Hopeful4future
The character of a person is defined by their actions...not their intentions. Otherwise, the world would be full of Saints.
BS: 40 (Me)
xFWW: 50
Married: 9/97
PA: 3 months
D-Day: 6/30/2005 (she revealed to me)
Divorced: 10/2/2008
Happy that I've moved on
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Hopeful waht a great idea....hmmmm - I will be using someone's e-mail -this sounds like fun....I am laughing out load -why didn't I think of that...
married 21
Together 26 -
OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest.
just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
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What a great idea!!!!!! Might just have to use that one!!
BS(me)-23
FWH-31
M-3yrs Together-5yrs
Son 2yrs
Step Sons 6yrs, 10yrs
EA (cyber sex)D-Day 9-25-2005
NC 9-25-2005
In Recovery
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I am gunna have to try that myself....Hmm i can think of alot of websites! LOL J/k
BS 24
FWH 24
M- 3years
Together 7 years
DS 4
DD 1
D-Day 6/27/05
NC- 6/28/05
Exposed A 7/1/05
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