For background on my story, please read my posts with subjects "messed up in the head" and "so confused and hurt but still in love".

My WW and I just returned from a 5 day "alone" trip. We had some very intimate moments. I assume this is normal that a WW spouse shows extra effort at intimacy after A exposed? Obviously, I am reading into it that she wouldn't be that way if she wasn't "interested" in rebuilding the marriage. Am I off base?

We also talked briefly about the OM's and it was confirmed that email contact has continued with OM#2 since A ended on 10/25. According to her, he sent her a "couple" emails asking her if she was okay? She indicated she replied. Is this part of withdrawal process? I know she hasn't physically seen him since 10/25.

I told her that she would have to agree to have no further contact. Her reply was that it is hard for her to give up "friendships", but she would do it for me. I said "they are not 'friends', but lovers (ex)." and that she needed to do it for her and us! Can someone give me an example of a NCL? Should I make contact with OM's myself?

She also inquired as to my thoughts of having "revenge sex" upon me receiving an innocent phone call that was difficult to explain. She actually asked me "Can't I be insecure too?

She has currently lost interest in going to her job, making herself look good everyday and has been ill with sinus and headaches, (going to Dr tomorrow). Stress??

I need to broach the MC subject again but am afraid because
of her emotional stability. Her IC has asked her to read a book about "Co-dependency", scares me!!

I have many concerns still, thus the rollercoaster.