Shorty,

Hey where are you? Are you doing ok? I feel a special connection between us military spouses! Exspecially those who have had to endure war time. I hope you are doing well. Keep us posted. SW

I'm sorry I've been a bit lost in myself. I have a darn addition my husband. I can't stop thinking when he is at work what is he doing blah blah blah you know. Well here is some more stuff. Since I live in Ca. and My family lives in AL. My step dad said he would come and get me and the kids if hubby dosen't grow up real quick. Hubby told me he wanted me to go home for awhile I first agreed then was like wait this is my house too I told him you freaken leave. So he did well I went to just drive by to see where he was and guess what her freaken car was parked across from his so I kept calling his cell no answer called hers no answer till I told her I was gonna freaken bust her car up then she called back we had words she even called his cell to play like they weren't together I'm not stupied so I got mad and told him look buddy its over I wouldn't answer the phone. I called his gunny and the guy told me I would have to have proof it was going on so what ever and he told hubby every thing I said so what ever. so it got ok then he called me and want me to bring him his cell charger at work so I did and I was supposed to call him first so he could walk out but I got my butt dressed up to a T and went in there and guess who I saw her boy I cusssed her for every thing damn it felt good face to face I wanted to beat her up but I thought of my kids.Then seen him oh they parked beside each other he says she parked beside him what ever so I cussed him too well he came home and said he was so mad at me that he couldn't stay here what ever another excuse to see her I guessI told him you walk out that door and its over and he did but he was home on the couch this morning and darn me I just had to call him on his cell at work and tell him I want to work it out darn I need a back bone oh well I'm gonna try my hardest not to call him at work not to cay in front of him and just let it go what ever happens happens

Sorry it took me a little while to get back. I had surgery this week Yuck! I am sorry to hear all of this is going on. Is he willing to work this out? Is he willing to give NC? Have you checked with the general discussion II board? They are really great there. I'm not a ton of help I am new at this myself but, they have helped me through a lot. It may be time to start snapping so pics if possible and get some evidence on your part. Sorry to cut it short I'm still not feeling up to par. Talk to you soon Good luck keep us posted

Wow- dump his [censored]. Sorry, but you do need a backbone. He's playing you for a fool.