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...the final Divorce Decree.
It is a proof for me to go over before meeeting with my attorney tomorrow, and then signing them if they are all approved by her. All that's left is for me to go to my STBXW's attorney's office, drop off some deed transfer documents for our timeshares, and wait for her to sign everthing.
It will get signed off on by the judge, filed, and a copy mailed back to me. Not much time left before it is officially over.
Seeing these papers sent me in a bit of a tailspin this afternoon, and I tried calling my STBXW a few times in a row, to no avail. I probably should not show her this weakness...but for some reason I still love her and want her to know that. I guess I am a bit of a masochist, or something like that...
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BH (Me) 32,
WW 38
no kids
been together 14.5 yrs.
married 9
D-day 12/5/04
D final 11/23/05, she got it all...I just wanted out.
Done with her...selfishness is not a virtue
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read the final line in your signature <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
Me, 43
DS18, DD12
Divorce final May 10, 2007
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Do you love her now, or do you love the woman you married?
Is she still the woman you married?
Same question I had to ask and answer myself, everytime I have had those same feelings as you do now.
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personal recovery
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