WW's affair has been nearly 5 months, most of time is intensive EA, and i saw WW experiencing withdrawl pain over and over again, and i do not know when WW will cut off all of contact with op.

yesterday it is ww first time to tell me she has not contacted op nearly 4 weeks. and she did not tell me if she would contact him or he would contact WW later.

I just told WW i can not bear to see her withdrawl pain any longer, i did see ww has been living in the withdrawl pain all the time since 4 months before.

I do believe WW contacted the op via telephone all the time although did not meet op often, even had a time to meet him , but never stayed there long time for fear that i would know, however i did know.

now i suppose i believe what WW told me that they have not contacted with each other for four weeks, because ww was right now in full of withdrawl pain.

in this case, should i warn ww that if contacted is resumed, that she will reexperiencing the withdrawls pain or should I give her a leave house order if i found later WW resume the contact with op due to ww can not bear the withdrawl pain?
and during this time, should i emphsis my boundary again to tell her if WW still try to contact this op after 4 weeks no contact period, i will grant her to live with this op for the rest of live of WW? should i tell her like this?

Because it really hurts me when i see her pain, she is really under the withdrawls pain every minute. very very weak.She is tourturing herself , which makes me hurtful also
please tell me what i should i do?

thanks all