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There are no outward signs from the frog prince since his return from the East. It is only my intuition ... I feel like this is the time that the famous letter from Trueheart to all WS just might reach under the surface. Don't ask me why. I just know that if I had always listened to my intuition, the A would not have had the chance to become so entrenched.
I have been in a dark Plan B since September 10th. Two superficial contact attempts from the frog at the very beginning were nipped.
Perhaps I am just contemplating another futile hopeful attempt (at what?) and it is better to continue my current course which will lead me to filing for D at the beginning of the new year.
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
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(((((((((LT))))))))))) Hope springs eternal in the BS breast. In the back of my mind, there's always some feeling that WH will have his epiphany and all will be restored to it's rightful order. NOT!
Stay dark. Stay Plan B. Intuition is good but action on the WS part is better. Be hopeful but stay pitch black!
This from a Plan B failure.
Grapes are versatile. Grapes can be sour, sweet, sublime as wine and fabulous even when old and dried out.
Me: BS
XCH: Clueless
2-DS: Bigger than me
1-DD: Now also bigger than me!
5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers
6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved
7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about?
Mediation set for November
Final dissolution in January 2007.
2008 and beyond: Life goes on...
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