You have to see it this way, he is now extremely confussed and is very impulsive and selfish many times. So I need a good, nice answer to his e-mail that will make me read unpredicatable, busy, and better that what he thinks.
Here's his e-mail.
I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving. Like I mentioned when I called. I would like to talk with you. I don't think now is the best time, for me or for you. It's too recent. What I do know is that I need time to analize things. I'm a very impulsive person. I do things without thinking. This is the first thing I want to take my time to do it right. Never in my life have I ever been so confussed. I need time to think .. and to think exactly what I want. I've already caused you too much pain. Let's at least have contact thru e-mail. This way we wont have to see each other and fight over the past. If I want to talk, it would be about the present and the future. I don't know what the future may bring, I don't know ... but I also know that I don't want lonelyness to play a big part in this and to push to make a decision that we might later regret in a few years.
Please. I hope you understand me. I feel awful already making you go thru this. But I need to learn to be alone before I can stablish a relation sheep. I need to be sure of who I am before I hurt anybody. As mentioned before .. I want to talk with you. I hope we can do it thru e-mail.
A kiss and I'll await for your e-mail. -------
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As you all can read, he seems to want to give in but is too afraid, but I need to answer something that will make him say WHAT? OH MY GOD?!! I'M LOOSING HER, ID BETTER WAK UP" or say 'OH MY GOD, I WASN'T EXPECTING THIS, I DO WANT TO HEAR FROM HER MORE AND MORE"
Sound busy and at the same time OK, FINE, BUT DON'T TAKE LONG - type of sentence.
GUYS?? GIRLS??!
Give advise as to how to reply!!!
EXCITED THAT GOD IS GIVING ME WHAT I'VE ASKED FOR!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
