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ROME (Reuters) - Your heartbeat accelerates, you have butterflies in the stomach, you feel euphoric and a bit silly. It's all part of falling passionately in love -- and scientists now tell us the feeling won't last more than a year.

The powerful emotions that bowl over new lovers are triggered by a molecule known as nerve growth factor (NGF), according to Pavia University researchers.

The Italian scientists found far higher levels of NGF in the blood of 58 people who had recently fallen madly in love than in that of a group of singles and people in long-term relationships.

But after a year with the same lover, the quantity of the 'love molecule' in their blood had fallen to the same level as that of the other groups.

The Italian researchers, publishing their study in the journal Psychoneuroendocrinology, said it was not clear how falling in love triggers higher levels of NGF, but the molecule clearly has an important role in the "social chemistry" between people at the start of a relationship.


Although this is a small study,it validates the idea behind the passion in A's waning just like it does for anyone else so there is no magical,uniqueness to A's at all.It's also new information to me in relation to other chemical induced "in love" feelings other's may have read about like I have( i.e. dopamine,norepinephrine).

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O-girl -

We knew it all along.

There is also an article in Kiplingers magazine about investing and making rash decisions. They did an experiment where they squirted some oxytocin up people's noses, and afterwards they were gambling more money on the advice of some "trustee".

The thing that gets me is that so many are willing to throw away EVERYTHING. It's plain and simple stupidity.

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See also the work of Helen Fisher.

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Very interesting - this is also new information to me... Thanks for sharing Octobergirl! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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WS everywhere now have another excuse...

A molecule made me do it!

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Drugs do have unpleasnt and even disasterous side effects,it's true.Whether you are having oxytocin shot up your nose or snorting whatever else,you don't exactly make the wisest decisions under the influence,like in A's.LOL We can all attest to that. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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I haven't heard of Helen Fisher but I will check it out.Thanks! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Suzet,

You're most welcome.Just thought it was an interesting little factoid. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Aph,

While some may now claim that NGF is to blame for their choice to engage in an A,I still pick my WH's as the best: cosmic forces! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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