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i know how you feel. my h and i are going through the same thing sorta. minus the girlfrined and he still lives with me and our two children. he says he is moving out after christmas, but i hope he doesn't. he does have a "friend" at work that i found out he hangs out with. but he swears they are "just friends". i hope this is the case. anyway, sounds like we are in the same boat. i'm trying not to push my h. but sometimes it's very hard not to do.

I seen you wrote this in another thread and that you are a junior member so I think we need to help you....

Your husband wants to move out and he has a "friend" at work. I am so sorry to tell you this but this other person is more than just a friend (we have all been there). He may not be in a physical affair but I can guarentee he is at least in an emotional one. (Again, I am sorry for you...)

I suggest you go over to the "General Questions" forum and post your story. There are lots of people there that will help you.

Keith