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OK. I get it.
Look at my byline.
Cherishing
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OK. I get it.
Look at my byline.
Cherishing
My husband has been honest when he has said, "I don't care."
I haven't believed him. I do now. Cherishing.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />, I take no satisfaction from "being right"....I am glad that you are "getting it"....you and your children deserve 100% better than what you have gotten in this life from your husband. For once, your Wayward abuser is telling the truth. I would listen to him here. Lem
Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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I am listening.
When he broke my arm four years ago, it was 12 days after extensive pelvic floor repair due to childbirth. I had a hysterectomy as well as repair to my bladder, rectum, and small intestine. I was in the hospital for 5 days.
When I threatened to call this woman who was in fact his lover, and he came over to the bed and lifted his fist to punch me, I said, "If you hurt me, you could mess up the surgery."
He said, "I don't care."
Four years and forty pounds higher in weight, I finally get it. He meant it. He means it.
I finally woke up and wanted you to know. It's hard to face, but it's better to face the truth than to protect a lie.
Cherishing
Last edited by Cherishing; 11/30/05 01:38 PM.
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well praise the Lord..cherishing...
that's about the best dayum news round these boards in a long long time....
be safe and well
ARK
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Yes,thank God!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!
I think everyone who has read your stuff will be saying the same thing.
You are going to be fine now...and happy!!!!!!, finally!
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