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I thought i posted this.. didnt see it so i tryed again..

Emailed, and will be posted to local bars and cars on her street!


!!BEWARE !!

A “HOME WRECKER”

She may live ON YOUR STREET or Nearby!

Her name is:

******* **********
(Short with Straight Blonde Hair and a little chunky, wears glasses, she has *** *****ages * & *)
She likes Older Married Men!

She is 24 years Old

@*** *******ST.
********PA
Cell # (***)*** ****
Phone # (***) *** *****
Car: **** ******, Newer ***** *****,
with *** ** ****, Plate # ***-???
Her Favorite Bar Is******* *******in ***** *******PA!
SHE had an affair with a 34 year old HUSBAND
from her work place and lied after being confronted!
She is still pursuing him!

The PREGNANT WIFE is a close friend of mine!
I thought this would give my friend some satisfaction
by getting word out to worn others!
Please, anyone in the same position, add any information if it is happening to you to EXPOSE IT!!




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I want to hear what the exposure queen, Melodylane, has to say about this one.

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LOL

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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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by getting word out to worn others!


I mistype and make spelling errors all the time but wanted to point out it should be spelled "warn" not "worn" others.

BTW, if her kids can read then these flyers should not be placed anywhere near where the kids or the neighbor kids might see them. They are innocent/victims in this matter and should be spared the embarassment of their mother's actions.

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DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered

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Baby,

Hope no one can trace this back to whoever put it up. I could see some legal-eagle stuff popping up.

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I hope this does not back fire on you....


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Together 26 -
OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest.
just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
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Is this really how "exposure" is supposed to work? It seems like a very scattershot approach to me, and including the childrens names was in poor taste, to say the least. And how has the WH been "exposed"? After all, he's the one who stepped outside his marriage.

I'm not sure why all the phone numbers were included either.

I'm really sad for the kids, and sad for you since you were so willing to use them to further your aims.

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And what exactly will this accomplish for the benefit of you or your friend?

Probably feels pretty good. No problem there.

But what's your real goal? If there is a preferred tangible result, that is.


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Wow... very extreme, Angel. I probably wouldn't have included the kids' names or the phone numbers.

I think we have all had fantasies of doing this sort of thing. Mine involves the portable AM transmitters I recently purchased for work. Have you ever heard of these? Sometimes realtors use them... you'll be driving by a house for sal and there will be a sign, "tune to 1340Am for more information," and you tune in, and there's a recording describing the house?

Sometimes I fantasize about setting one up near H's and OW's work to do my own broadcast, telling all his co-workers exactly what he and she are doing. Or setting it up in the bar district: "Women of our town, watch out for H, who abandonned his wife and baby daughter for OW!" I'd never do it, of course, but a BS can dream...


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I have dreamed about doing this at some point but have been instructed no more exposure is needed but what satisfaction it would bring.


BS (Me) 43 WW or FWW 40 2 DS's 16 and 13 Married 21 Years D-day 9/10/2005 Exposure 9/11/2005 False NC 9/11/2005 Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005 NC (Letter written Jan 2006) Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006 In a holding pattern. Me Still Handing in there Phil 4:13
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Wow... very extreme, Angel. I probably wouldn't have included the kids' names or the phone numbers.

None of the kids names were mentioned.. and come to think of it I never thought of the 7yr old and his friends on his street reading it.
As a mom, i would be furious if the kids somehow found out..What was i thinking..i got desperate.
flyers have not yet been passed out outside. I was thinking of only posting it in the bars she goes to but modifying to just her name, the bottom only says by a friend just in case she linked it to me doing so.
I didnt know what else to do...
Please dont be mad at me


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Baby,

Plus how many ""34 year old HUSBAND
from her work place"" has she been with??

She is going to KNOW it is you tacking up these flyers.

Remember the legal eagle stuff??

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My 2 cents or is that sense?

Beware of legal issues. Right off the bat, I would sue if it were me. Defaming character, slander, etc. This flyer is ripe for some lawyer. Are YOU prepared to go to court?

Unless you are prepared to go to court to back up all of these accusations, then I would back off. Just becasue you think this person is a home wrecker may not be the position the courts take.

Remember, it may be morally wrong, but legal wise, I'd say you are treading on thin ice...at best.

I am a BS too, and would love to paint the town red, but we are goverened by laws like it or not.

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[/quote]None of the kids names were mentioned.. and come to think of it I never thought of the 7yr old and his friends on his street reading it.
As a mom, i would be furious if the kids somehow found out..What was i thinking..i got desperate.

I didnt know what else to do...
Please dont be mad at me [/quote]

Hey, no one's mad at you; I think that everyone has empathy for you. Of course you're desperate. But you don't want to get in trouble.

I didn't realize that you hadn't put the chidren's names in; all the ***'s fooled me. I'm very sorry for coming down on you.

It's a shame that your H does not have the courage/character to tell you the truth. Take care.

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This would be libel. Slander is spoken.

Anyone can sue anyone else all they want. Does not mean they will win.

If it can be proven true there is no libel.

But it would be costly to everyone involved in any case.

My question still: What tangible benefit do you get out of this?


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This would be libel. Slander is spoken.

and any opinion/facts that are, in fact, accurate, are neither libel nor slander

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"and any opinion/facts that are, in fact, accurate, are neither libel nor slander"

That's what I wrote, I think:

If it can be proven true there is no libel.


"Never forget that your pain means nothing to a WS." ~Mulan

"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky

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"and any opinion/facts that are, in fact, accurate, are neither libel nor slander"

That's what I wrote, I think:

If it can be proven true there is no libel.

... sorry ... duh .... my eyes did not catch that the first time around

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Baby,

Plus how many ""34 year old HUSBAND
from her work place"" has she been with??

She is going to KNOW it is you tacking up these flyers.

Remember the legal eagle stuff??

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i guess i let my anger take over my mind...
i wasnt even thinking the legal stuff. honest. Well.. emails did go out.. hope they didnt get too far...
lesson learned.. hope nothing comes out as far as her coming back at me..all i can do is deny it, and say that i had no control over my friends.. i dunno..


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