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If you can prove it, then there is no legal problem. And if you can keep it from the kids, then again no problem.

I am still wondering what someone asked above...why is not your WH on that flyer also? If I would have done this, my WW would have been on there also.

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I am still wondering what someone asked above...why is not your WH on that flyer also? If I would have done this, my WW would have been on there also.

i was going to but i thought that would push him farther away. His whole family, my family and all of his friends were told about it plus his friends families... At this moment.. his mom does not want him near her house.


WH (34) Me (30) Married 2002 Together for 7yrs. HA Starting of inves.10/24/05 11-09-05: H wont admit though he knows i know 11-18-05: Confrontation, H admitted A.
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I know. But if you want to be truthful, then you would have to expose both. Exposure is fine. Being vindictful to one is not.

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I know. But if you want to be truthful, then you would have to expose both. Exposure is fine. Being vindictful to one is not.

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WH (34) Me (30) Married 2002 Together for 7yrs. HA Starting of inves.10/24/05 11-09-05: H wont admit though he knows i know 11-18-05: Confrontation, H admitted A.
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I think your WH should have been pictured on the flyer too.

So many times we are easily able to blame the OP...when the WS was the one all along to propegate the lie.

But then again, an OP is a liar still.

Make sure your actions NEVER come back to bite you...leave the major vengeance to the almighty...

The OP will always fall. and fail.


me:37 BS; s:7; xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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