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I am curious, has any BS changed their minds about fidelity? Those who knew that they would never cheat...now do they think differently.
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Joined: Dec 2005
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I feel that ANYONE is capable of doing it. Personally I have thought to myself that I never would but in light of recent events I can see that with the right conditions, lack of EN's being met for example will make even the strongest people think that maybe they could if the situation presented itself.
just my point of view.
BS 32
WW 31
Children 4
Met July 1997
married June 1999
D-Day Oct 28th 2005
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i am sure i would never physically cheat. pretty positive. i have had 2 friendships in the past the i felt a bit of a connection to them, but it wasn't spoken. one guy was interested in me, would have easily been an opportunity for an EA/PA, but it isn't in me. sure i was flattered by the attention with both, but i never let it get that far.
i am sure part of it is because i have to really trust and know someone to get physical with them. i could never have a ONS for example.
i agree that ANYONE is capable of doing it and that good people have affairs. i think that has helped me immensely with starting recovery and being able to know i can forgive my H.
It's not what happens to you, It's what you do about it.- W. Mitchell
Take chances. When rowing forward, the boat may rock. -Chinese Proverb
Me-30 BS
H- 32 WS
3yo DD and one on the way
DDay 11/21/2005
Hopefully working on a true recovery...
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