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I found out in Aug that my wife of 4 years had an affair with a friend from work. After a few days of thinking and praying and counsel from friends I forgave her and made every effort to work on our marriage. Things where going well until she re-initiated her friendship and left her faith. She moved out 7 weeks ago with the understanding that, "no one will tell me who I can and can't be friends with". We have tried counseling but she didn't want to go back. How long do I have to wait? Is the measure of my love determined by by paience?
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Welcome to marriagebuilders. The first step is to be in Plan A. You can read all about it here. It includes being a model husband, with no disrespect or LB's. Also it includes exposing the affair.
Do you have any children together?
Is the OM married?
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