Last month my husband and I had our second son. 4 days after returning home from the hospital, I found phone numbers on the back of his reports. He denied knowing who they were even though it was written in his handwriting. I called one of the numbers (it was two) and the lady told me she met him on a chat line. She also stated she had never seen him, but they talked twice over the phone. He also told her he had children with me, but failed to tell her he was married. She apologized to me because she did not know the situation. I voiced my opinion about the matter to him and left it alone. Later that night he left the house and has not been home since then. I later found out that the same week he picked a woman up in my car and took her to his job (He works outside). Of course he denied that too. He told his parents he is not ready to come home or call yet because he can't deal with it right now and he don't want to hear me argue with him. He wont tell anyone where he has been staying, but claim there is no one else in his life. When they spoke to him about his behavior, he became defensive and walked out on them as well. How could he be so selfish. If there was an emergency no one knows where to reach him because he no longer is assigned to the place he took the woman. We have been together for 4 years and now married only 10 months. I want to do what is right by my marriage, but at the same time I don't want to be made a fool of or taken for granted. I really need someone to give me some advice and help me out with this one.
Last edited by Catina; 12/07/05 10:21 AM.
