Need help here. Well I've been deployed for some time now and soon to return to the states. I've been married going on 7 years and have a 5 year old daughter. Situation, well around Thanksgiving I called home to my wife and was told that maybe we should seperate when I return home. Reason was that she couldn't trust me anymore and that she wasn't happy. Yeah I've done some damage to my marriage before, but we worked it out. I knew something was going on back home, because early in the deployment I would call she was happy talking for awhile telling me "I love you" and then putting my daughter on. Then it became "I got to get going, bye" same with the e-mails, from the computer which she just bought while I was gone. Then she left for a weekend back to my home in AZ from NC without our daughter for the weekend and saw my mom and left. My mom said the whole thing was wierd. Anyways we talked it over and decided to work it out when I returned. Then the "dark secret" I had came out. Well I had been on the internet and been chatting with some women throughout this whole time. So she found that out by accident and a few days ago said that there is no fixing it we are threw. Also that her little trip to see my mom was also a trip to see someone she had met on the internet also, but she confronted the individual and told him this wasn't right, and that she couldn't go on with it. I love her and my daughter still and I do not want to break this family apart. Just my actions added fuel to the fire. I deleted my accounts and profiles, but that made no impact with her who still has divorce on her mind. Which we will seek lawyers upon my return to the states. I didn't cheat on her physically, but mentally and electronically. I was in the wrong to keep this from her for so long. But I truly want to work it out with her. Please help!