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I originally wanted my STBXW and her AP to fall on their face. I had hoped he would dump her big time to show her what a mistake she made.
Now I actually hope they get married sometime. I guess, so it would show that she didn't tear apart out family and marriage for a fantasy and it actually is a real thing for them.
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As far as I am concerned personally, I really don't mind what my STBX and his OW do. They've been living together since d day anyway, and he's been acting as if she is his new wife already.
At first this was so painful, but I'm over it now. My only concern is for the kids. They've been through enough h*ll already since their daddy left, so I guess that if STBX and OW stayed together it would make things a little more stable for them. I hate the thought of them meeting and getting to like the OW, and then she and STBX splitting up.
Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Sorry if I sound vengeful.
I would like them to marry because:
- AP should know what a louse X is. If she doesn't already know, he has poor $$ management, is broke all the time, doesn't pay his bills and on top of that,is sneaky, lies and cheats. Oh, did I forget to say he's selfish?
- Since I don't know much about AP, perhaps I can only say he should marry a person who has bad judgement and low self confidence.
I'll drink to that!
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