Just want to let you know that I read your post and will not continue to threadjack..

I won't be speaking with LM anymore on that particular thread...

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There's no reason for either of you to stop speaking to each other You both have VERY valid points and I think are coming to the same goals, from different angles (angels?)

You both have helped a GREAT many people on here. And from giving folks a choice in different opinions, they are able to pull from many options...not just the party line, or one opinion is correct.

We all make assumptions about a situation based on our own life experiences and how we would handle it. There are times when I get VERY angry about a post or two and shoot back a response (and in some cases I have hit the wrong button and it wasn't submitted...thank heavens) and then there are times when what advice is given I couldn't say any better, and "ditto" is my best advice.

But what I've found, and I think we get reminded sometimes, is when a particular post, or poster inflames us, there is something to explore about our reaction...some uncovered emotion that is ready to be exposed...

True? Mimi, LM?

Still:

I don't plan to stop speaking to LM...

I'm amazed at how differently I experience him than others do and have been trying to figure that out...

I find him to be insulting to ME. I think he knows that....

He himself has labeled me as being his "NEMESIS"....

Then, I PROBABLY <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> WRONGFULLY assume that he is insulting others...

If I had come on this site, asking for help and received his initial post, I don't think I would have come back here..

But that's just me.

Just like LM said, some folks may respond differently to him...it seems that a lot of folks do...

As we all know, he does not have to please me though...

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Hey Mimi, email me...

stillheremakingit@yahoo.com

Still:

I'm sorry. I can't E-Mail you here at my job....

Maybe later....

I just now read LM's last post to me last night...

He may or may not be around here, I guess...

Oh, Well...

I just want to say that I don't think that LM and I get each other...

I don't like the GENERALIZATIONS that he used about me..

I agree with that PLAN A is not a good idea for JAN....

I wanted us here to try to HELP her in a time of distress and need for her...not scare her away...

So, where is she now?

I certainly do not think I have all the answers...

I see myself as an amateur..an anonymous friend and confidante.. just trying.. trying to give back a portion of the HELP that I got here and the HELP that I got here was a TRUE BLESSING straignt from GOD...

Thanks to all of you...

Even you, LM...

You are helping me to become clearer and clearer about who I am...and I like what I see, thank God....

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