A little background: My son has been going thro a tuff time since he returned from his tour in New Orleans the end of Oct. He moved into an apartment with a GF and her 3 kids. He was looking for an new apartment. He moved out last Nov 29 a wensday night when she brought a new BF home and told him to leave. He slept in his car all night in the freezing cold. He lives in another state from me. He moved into his friends home the next night. On 11/30. They had been having Sf. He was told by her that she was on birthcontrol -the kind they implant in your arm. I know he should not have believed her but he did. She had a full blown period he said for one week ending on T-Day. 11/24. He left on the 11/29. She now states she is pregnant. One month along he saw the report. He says he will take care of the child. He had found out that she was also e-mailing and getting numerous phone calls from a "friend" from work who is male and M. I told him to get a perternity test after baby is born. I have been told it can be done sooner. Is this true? I have told him to be careful as to me it seems there could be the possiblilty of 2 different fathers and to make sure this is ck'd into. He would like to know as soon as possible. Of course I have listened to him and not told him what to do. But I think he should not be to quick to assume this baby is his. She lives in a 2 bdroom with 3 kids now. Lets her kids stay up as long as they want and more or less run the household. Please pray for us. I want grandchildren but with the right step daughter. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Paternity can be established before the baby is born in by several methods. However, there is risk to the baby, so I don't think it is advisable.

Just by your dates, I don't think it is his child. Encourage him to get confirmation after the baby is born.

Realtor, if she is going to have amniocentisis then he can ask if they will do a paternity test at that time otherwise it is not safe or practical. He will likely have to wait until the child is born, the test can be done at the hospital the child is born in.

believer I have the same thoughts.

Gosh I hope you mean Daughter-in-Law.....LOL

I think she since kicked him out to bring home a new BF, I would say when you prove it's mine I'll be glad to take responsibility for it, but not until then.


P.S. Taking responsibility for the one, doesn't mean also taking responsibility for the other 3!

OOooppss wrong word thanks Lexxy.

Oh good lord - now she tells him she is having cravings - ice cream and cucumbers. This is way to soon for that.

thanks to all for the support. She had a miss carriage today -so that is over. Either that or she got her monthly which is due about now anyway.