I just popped in to the "Just Found Out" board for the first time in a while, and there seem to be quite a few "new arrivals" who are coming for guidance and advice. However, there are some who have not received any responses, and others who have received only 1 or 2.

Personally, I am at a place in recovery where it does me harm to revisit those moments, so therefore I haven't responded to posters there for some time.

If there are those of you kind and caring people who ARE able to give assistance to these "newbies", there is truly a need for you on that Board.

I just wanted to do what I could to "help", but simply cannot do it first hand. For that, I'm sorry. But if a few folks do go over and help, I would have done a little.

Best wishes,
SD

BH - me 53, ONS 1979
FWW - 51, 2 EA's, 1 PA
Last D-Day, Sep. 30, 2003
Last Contact/recovery began 2-26-04

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