You seem very immature to me. Is the only reason you married so you could have sex when ever you wanted it ? What about the words love, honor, charish ? Do you remember those words ? How many times have you been married anyway ?<P>Did you ever stop to think that one reason a woman might not be in the mood is because of the way she is talked to or treated ? Grow up already for petes sake. All I can say is what goes around comes around. You have sown a bad crop buddy, don't expect to reap a bunch of rose's later ok.<P>Deb exits, totally peeved and disgusted. <P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Hurray for Deb, don't feel alone, he sounds like my first husband. I wonder if he's got a dog and would he treat his dog that badly?<BR>I think I need to really pray that God wakes him up before he gets really hurt!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<BR>

Oh please don't let him have a dog.

sorry all mean no harm i know it is hard to hold on to what you have but some times like i did i gave up with usa ladys sure i cannot spell good i had to work all my life and not go to school when i was younger is it wrong i now do not have to cheat on my {wives)like i did with all of them <P>sorry have a great day !!!!!

Chick's,<P>Calling someone an illiterate fool and then saying "God Bless" all in the same paragraph?<P>I'm a little confused. Does adding the "God Bless" make it okay? Please don't slam me, I'm just asking. Yesterday we got hit with a criticism of hipocrisy (sp? - sorry, not the best speller). So, I'm just wondering.<P>And I agree with K. Frankie's posts really bug me sometimes, but he's not even on this thread and he's being picked on and made fun of like his life is a big joke. That doesn't seem very fair or right to me.

yes one more thing many of my men pals do cheat they love there wife but love to get laid with no aftermath!! and yes most of there (wives)thank you do not cheat would never but i do think most men would cheat for a one nite stand if they never could get caught i did for many years and most men do indeed would like a wife like mine!!!

Lark:<P>Good point. I made the mistake of name-calling yesterday out of frustration. I sense that Chicks feels the same way here. Doesn't make it right, so let's remember what happened yesterday.<P>As for frankie, we're not picking on him. We're sharing a laugh at the fact that several of us had the same first reaction when we read this ridiculous thread.<P>Let it go.<P><BR>-------<P>nomorebshoney:<P><BR>I sincerely DOUBT the accuracy of your statement that "most men would cheat if they never could get caught." Please refrain from speaking for MOST men, since you have NO idea what most men would do. You only have an idea what YOU would do. <P>For the record, I've had several opportunities to cheat, but didn't out of RESPECT for my wife, my marriage, my vows, and most importantly, MYSELF.<P>I'm sorry you feel you have to have sex every night to feel fulfilled, and that that's all that seems to matter to you for a marriage. I have a feeling your "wife" will get tired of that sometime soon.<P>You may be 26 years older than me chronologically, but emotionally and psychologically speaking, you're about 3 years old.<P>Grow up, or some day you're gonna lose THIS wife like you lost your last "wifes."<P>------------------<BR>/// Lone Star * ///<P><p>[This message has been edited by Lone Star (edited September 29, 1999).]

ok lets say i do lose this wife well i will buy another no big deal why do most men cheat I WILL TELL YOU WHY(SEX)and you ladys do not give it up when your hubbys want it and they go out and get for free or $ i have no reason to cheat now i have a great wife and i have sex when i want and how i want it i would do the same for her!!!

So much for the saying that all the "good" ones are taken.

Hi everyone,<BR>Help me out on this one....What is his point here? He makes no sense at all.<BR>Wrong board!!!<BR>Maya, I agree with you... No DOG.

Suzy Q, <P>I'll try to translate:<P>Problem:<BR>American men want lots of sex.<BR>American women don't give lots of sex to their husbands.<P>Solution:<BR>Go overseas to get an underaged girl who can't speak english to be your boy toy on demand. When she leaves, repeat process.<P>I'm not sure how this is a marriage builder topic. I suppose this is what happens when testosterone is put in the hands of the wrong people.

Drat these double posts <p>[This message has been edited by Butterfly (edited September 29, 1999).]

Oh Oh Oh.... I have a question for you mr. nomorebshoney......<P>Did your Mail Order "bride" come with a pump, or do you have to blow her up manually???<P>

WOW ~ 3 for the price of one!<P> <p>[This message has been edited by Butterfly (edited September 29, 1999).]

SHA - you translated very succinctly! I guffawed out loud at your 'testosterone in the wrong hands' line. Good one .<P>Is this one of the most bizarre and funny threads we have ever seen here or what??<P>Lark & chick's, you're right, I shouldn't poke fun at Frankie. His heart's in the right place, even if his code of ethics is in a galaxy far, far, away (maybe the same place where mail-order brides come from *snort*)(sorry, I can't resist! )<P>Anyway.... hey, LS, thanks for the backup. You know I'm not generally mean-spirited... but sometimes my devlish high spirits carry me away... I think I need a beef jerky...

Auuuuuggggggghhhhhh!!!<P>SUSE!<P>Just when I was beginning to believe the sincerety of your thanks!!!<P>Again with the beef jerky? Will my torment NEVER end? <BR> <P>------------------<BR>/// Lone Star * ///<P>

Hey we have to give him credit here, mr.bs that is. By starting this thread he generated alot og really funny replys, I for one am ROFLMBFBO.<P>Umm, am I wrong or wasn't slavery abolished a long time ago ? I refer to mr. bs's say he would just "buy" another wife if this one leaves him. Now thats what I call love.<P>Ladies I suggest we all thank God that we didn't get stuck with this one. <P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

*I* think...Mr. BS has a bit of a problem with us brainy American women, who want to be EQUAL PARTNERS in a relationship. He just wants a sex kitten, who also cooks and cleans, never opposing. <P>That idea's been covered in many movies...Stepford Wives, Cherry2000, etc., etc. Check out those endings sometime, fella. They always blow up (or SOMEone gets blown up).<P>On a related note, a friend of ours recently married an Asian woman--fell in love with her while on military assignment. She's gorgeous, speaks very little English, and is to all outward appearances very subserviant. He's happily introducing her to all American ways, including HER RIGHTS, and encouraging her to share in all things, including usage of the word "no." I think they will be just fine.

If you are happy and your new wife is happy too, then I think that's great. I don't have anything against looking for a spouse in any other countries as long as it works out for the married couple. I hope it works out for both of you. Best of luck!<BR><p>[This message has been edited by NoTrust (edited September 29, 1999).]

Mr. Nomore:<P>I feel terribly sorry for you. <P>I feel sorry that every time your W opens her legs for you it's not because she loves or desires your touch, it's because you paid for it and it's her job.<P>I feel sorry that every meal she cooks for you isn't made with love and affection - wanting to nourish the man whom she adores, but it's because you paid for it and it's her job.<P>I'm sorry you don't know the feeling of being tenderly nurtured, caressed and deeply cherished by a woman. I suppose you don't get that at all, it's not in her job description.<P>I'm sorry you don't know the puffed up pride other men feel when their W's iron their shirts and straighten their ties with a gentle kiss before they step out the door for work - knowing she believes he's the best man in the world - the smartest, the handsomest, the breadwinner and hero of her life. <P>You don't get that sparkle in her eye when she looks at you. It's not her job.<P>Nor would you feel the pain and heartache of her if you cheated on her and broke her heart. She wouldn't care - you didn't buy her heart - it's not for sale - you can't own it.<P>I feel sorry you're the laughingstock of your friends and aquaintances - they say you're not good enough for true love, you had to buy a maid, a cook and a whore and make do with that. <P>I feel sorry you're heart doesn't swell with joy and tears of love don't come to your eyes when you think of her and the love you share. You don't have love, it's a financial agreement. <P>I'm sorry that every love song you hear on the radio leaves you feeling cold and empty inside.<P>Most of all, I'm sorry you think it's grand. But deep down, I know there's a part of you that feels so unhappy and disappointed with yourself and what you've become. There's a part of you that mourns the fact you're not smart enough, or healthy and strong enough, or tender enough for true love. Among other men, you feel defeated - like you don't measure up. <P>You get what you settle for, and I'm sorry you settled for this.<P>May God's plan find a way so you can experience the soulful joys and pains of real love someday - but first you must love yourself. And that's the hardest thing to do, isn't it?